You’ve probably seen the statistic that more people are afraid of public speaking than they are of dying. Yes, I definitely used to be one of those statistics. And well, truth be told, this fear may always be there, though I have, thank goodness, learned how not to let it rule me. Read More
YIKES! It’s just been reflected back to me that I’ve gotten way too serious lately. Have you noticed? That’s not really me! It’s true that I’m certainly not the “funniest” person I know, but weirdly, when I teach, people tell me I’m really funny. Read More
The Threshold Cross the threshold and take your next step with ease I know you’ve experienced it. That moment when you wanted to do something . . . and you procrastinated. Maybe it was something you haven’t done before. Maybe you’re ready to take your business to the next level, start or end a personal Read More
Ready for change? Whatcha gonna do about your “Comfort Zone?” Are you stepping into your hopes and dreams? Emotional intelligence, among other things, includes the willingness and ability to try new things and to grow and change along with your desire for growth and change. Is there a dream or goal you’ve been putting off? Read More
The Pendulum Learning Curve, Part 2 Emotional Mastery by Embodying all Nine Enneagram Types Being human means that at times, your feelings could be hurt, you could be upset about how or why someone did what they did, or life throws a curve ball at you that’s upsetting. In my last blog, I mentioned that Read More
The Pendulum Learning Curve, Part 1 I’ve witnessed it so many times that I’ve given it a name — The Pendulum Learning Curve. The most common pendulum pattern I’ve seen is around anger, especially in people who are “spiritual.” They often say, “I’m not an angry person; I want to keep the peace so I’ll Read More
Building Trust Wherever people gather, in companies, families, partnerships of any kind and even in spiritual and religious organizations, people will be people. That means the “human drama” will exist. The challenge is for each person to have the ability to observe themselves, their reactions to others especially those they may perceive as challenging, to Read More
Who’s the Me I Want to Be? Here’s another way to answer the question, “I know my type; now what?” EnneaMotion gave me the flexibility and ability to respond in new ways outside my comfort zone. AND, how we respond to life’s challenges does not have to be based on type. I started to ask Read More
I know my type. Now what? Yes, I used to hear that a lot. In the early days of the Enneagram Monthly, we were sort of the hub of all news Enneagram. We embraced all the schools of thought as well as independent thinkers, poetry, book and movie reviews, new theories, research and more. People Read More
I’m delighted to welcome you to my new website! My Number One message for you is: CHANGE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE DIFFICULT. In fact, change can be easy. When change is difficult, a step is missing. I hope to help you fill in the missing steps! These pages will be useful for you if Read More
Get this quick start on the 9 Enneagram types. Learn about each type at a glance and how they are useful at different times. Find out if you have the range, ability and flexibility to move between the types…that’s Emotional Intelligence!